A parent’s guide
to transition to Nursery
We are very excited to welcome our new Broadford
pupils to Nursery tomorrow. Here are some tips for supporting your child
with the transition to Nursery.
Successful transitions
Changes are
by their nature potentially stressful. It is important that children experience
successful transitions in early childhood as these act as templates for their
future ways of dealing with change.
1. Stay Calm
Very young
children are very quick to pick up on anxieties or stress shown by their
parents. While you might try to put on a cheery voice or smile, children are
able to read body language and pick up on voice tones very effectively.
If children
sense that you are anxious, their stress levels will increase. A successful
transition for your child relies therefore on you feeling comfortable too. If
you are feeling anxious, think about why this might be and talk to one of our
EYFS practitioners about your concerns.
2. Develop goodbye routines and try to keep them brief
If you do
not have a goodbye routine, it is worth developing one. If you leave your child
with a partner, family member or friend even for a few minutes, create a little
goodbye routine. Something as simple as ‘three kisses and bye bye’ can be
immensely helpful. Goodbye routines are useful as they are positive ways of
leaving. When your child arrives at nursery, make the drop-off loving but
quick. Find a member of staff, give your child a hug and a kiss, then leave.
3. Have a smooth start to the day
Many
children will cope better with transition if they have had a smooth start to
their day at home. This is because their background stress levels on entry to
the setting are lower than children who have had a bumpy start to their day.
While many families struggle to get out of the door on time packed, fed and
dressed, it is worth aiming to be super-organised for the days around
transition in order to give your child a better start. Make sure also to get
your child to bed so that they have sufficient sleep. Tired children do not
make for great transitions.
4. Talk about Nursery positively
Talk about
Nursery as much as you can at home. Tell your child that they will be safe,
that the children and staff will like them, and that they will have great fun
whilst they are there.
5. Explain to your child that you
will be back
You know you
will pick your child up at home time, but that may not be obvious to them.
Explain this in a way they can understand such as ‘I’ll be back for lunch time
or I’ll be back after story time.”